Wednesday, June 3, 2009
15 years ago a woman was beat and suffered so much because of her abusive ex. She moved on and teached about domestic violence and did a lot so girls won't go through what she has. 15 years later her ex is release and she is now scared for her life. He wrote her a threat letter which now has her bitting her finger nails.
I know I go on about leaving your abusive husband but I never said it was going to be easy! Nothing in life is easy! We must walk with our heads up high and continue to fight for that life we deserve. Something would definately happen to him; this would not go far. I do understand her fear but she has gone a long way and I believe she would be okday. Much luck to her!
[[click the link above and you'll have the orignal paper]]
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
I JUST WANTED TO SAY HII AND I HOPE THAT MY BLOGS ARE HELPING A LOT OF YOU MOVE FOWARD AND CONTINUE TO TRY TO MAKE THAT FIRST STEP INTO HELPING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE VICTIMS. KEEP UP WITH MY UPDATES AND CONTINUE TO COMMENT ON A LOT OF MY POSTS. IF YOU HAVE ANY WEBSITES YOU MAY WANT ME TO SEE THAT HAS TO DO WITH DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, LET ME KNOW AND I'LL BE MORE THEN HAPPY TO CHECK IT OUT...
CONTINUE TO KEEP FOLLOWING MY BLOGS!! =D
"He hit me so hard using various items that I would not recognise myself as I was literally battered from head to toe.
"I have had my head split open on several occasions, several broken noses, a broken jaw, broken ribs, a fractured arm, suffered cuts and severe bruising on almost every part of my body."
Police officers recieve a very disturbing call on christmas eve. A man, upset about his divorce, dresses up as Santa Claus and kills his ex wive, her parents and 6 relatives on Christmas Eve and he then later kills himself.
I want to become a police officer, as I may have said before, but I wouldn't know how to answer a call like this!!.. I know you must be prepared for anything but no matter how many years in the field, you would never be prepared for what may come next. To see all these innocent people die on a time where they were sharing a loving moment on christmas eve, is so hurtful. These police officers may never forget this and I dont blame them!
A man with 3 wives and 19 children was sentenced to 7 life terms for abusing, enslaving, and starving his family. He beatened them with anything he could get his hands on. He wouldn't them go out; they were pratically imprisoned in their own home. They weren't allowed to eat unless he said so but he would still force his wives to cook ONLY for him. Munsa Musa Muhammad is now in jail and the 3 wives and 19 children confessed on all he's done to them.
This article is something I would normally see on Law and Order but it hurts to say that this really happened to these poor people. I am not against Polygamist because like I've explained before, everyone is entitled to their own life styles as long as they aren't harmful to anyone else; he obviously was! No one deserves to get treated like slaves because we aren't in the 1930's. We have our rights and we are entitled to our freedom and we should definately fight for it.
By LEE CONDON, TIMES STAFF WRITER August 16, 2000
This article is about how an armed man chased his longtime girlfriend through her workplace and into rush-hour traffic, shooting her to death in front of scared witnesses then killing himself. They weren't married but they have been together for approximately 13 years and shared 3 kids who were left orphaned.
"They were running across the street and he was shooting at her. He shot her three times and then he shot himself," one of the witnesses said.
I AM PERSONALLY SHOCKED WITH THIS ARTICLE!
There are many crazy people living in this world and they don't think about things before they do something. I can't believe the man actually killed his long-time girlfriend whom he shared three kids with. NO ONE THINKS OF THE KIDS. How do you think these kids would grow up to be? Having to live with the fact that 'daddy killed mommy then killed himself, so now I'm stuck in an orphanage miles away from my other sibilings'. Its a tough life and because it may be over for the parents, it isn't over for the ones left behind.
The link above shows that children who witness domestic violence in their own home become agressive, depressed, and develop misbehaviorial problems. Children are young kids that learn a lot through what happens around them. A kid knows what you are feeling when you are going through abusive times and he feels it too. But sometimes kids grow up thinking it's okay to be abusive. They may believe that being abusive is the way to love someone. You have to try to not expose those types of behavior behind nor' in front of your kids; its unexceptable. Sometimes you may think they aren't around but walls do have ears and they know what is happening behind those closed doors. Don't think that kids are just kids. They have feelings and they are not stupid, they are aware of what's going on.
Listen .. many woman go through tough times and if you are getting abused, there are other ways of getting out of the relationship with out killing anyone. I know it may be hard, but you are risking too much and its just not the way to go. You will become the monster that he is and it wouldnt get u no where. Click the link 'WIFE MURDERS HER ABUSIVE HUSBAND' above and you will see the article of Mary Winkler, a woman abused by her preacher husband, killed him with a shotgun. Post a comment on your personal opinion.